tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post6220212214251472050..comments2023-11-02T07:14:48.740-05:00Comments on The Overflow: The Beginning of the RoadKenziehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00658597453777391189noreply@blogger.comBlogger31125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-40650753430595690942008-01-24T12:04:00.000-06:002008-01-24T12:04:00.000-06:00Hello Stanfield Family. Kenzie, a friend of mine h...Hello Stanfield Family. Kenzie, a friend of mine had passed along your story asking for prayer just yesterday (1/23/08). I am so sorry for your loss and no words I say will take away your grief. As humans we sometimes try to say the right thing that we think will help when really only God can provide that for you. I do want to say this...for some reason God put your story in my life. You have no idea how your faith and Maddox's life has touched mine. I have no children of my own nor am I married but the faith you have in our Father has moved me like nothing else. We will never know why Maddox went to be with our Father so soon but sometimes the purpose of WHAT God wants from us is missed. God has used you through this tragic event. All I can say is I am praying for you and your family but THANK YOU for sharing your story and most importantly your faith! I have grown as a Chrsitian because of you. My heart, my sympathy, and my love goes out to your and your family.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05034899207484835932noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-49113438083124394422007-11-13T13:33:00.000-06:002007-11-13T13:33:00.000-06:00Kenzie,There is a wonderful spina bifida doctor, K...Kenzie,<BR/>There is a wonderful spina bifida doctor, Kathryn Oster-meier, at TCH - Eva Acosta is her clinic coordinator, 832-822-4308. She will never use the L-word (lethal) about your baby.<BR/><BR/>Dr. Luerssen is a great neurosurgeon who operated on my baby's back (open at birth and needed to be closed) - Sharon is his sweet nurse, 832-822-3955. He does amazing work, and do not let anyone tell you that no one will touch your baby. It simply is not true.<BR/><BR/>Dr. Olutoye is a pedi surgeon (maybe for a g-tube, if you need it) - 832-822-3135. <BR/> <BR/>I bet you could get consultations with these specialists in advance of birth (like particularly the neurosurgeon) if you called, to assure yourself they are on board with your hope for interventions if Maddox is born fighting. <BR/><BR/>A great NICU "fellow" (almost neonatologist) is Dr. Patel. You'd access him through the NICU. We just walked this way less than a year ago, and our little girl is thriving, because of the care we received from these wonderful doctors. I can't say everyone was optimistic or willing to do interventions - quite the opposite, sometimes. But you are correct to have hope. And apnea might be treatable (it is for our daughter).<BR/><BR/>living_thriving@yahoo.comAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-87887667527924666282007-11-12T09:11:00.000-06:002007-11-12T09:11:00.000-06:00Kenzie, I know that you do not know me, but my goo...Kenzie, <BR/>I know that you do not know me, but my good friend Sheila directed me to your website. I wanted you to know that I'm praying for you and your family, and for sweet baby Maddox. May God give you a giant amount of peace throught this and a great miracle healing foir baby Maddox! Take Care<BR/>Katie WalkerAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-45490576641732445002007-11-08T11:19:00.000-06:002007-11-08T11:19:00.000-06:00I know I just commented on another post yesterday,...I know I just commented on another post yesterday, but when I read the last part of this post, I felt as if I had written them myself. Right here on a frame on my desk is the image of my Miller Grace and me, face to face, with the words of Psalm 139:13-16 underneath. What comfort those words hold! I am praying for you today.Emilyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08759365262093159087noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-25476212116352001862007-11-07T12:40:00.000-06:002007-11-07T12:40:00.000-06:00The depth and purity of your love and faith is ove...The depth and purity of your love and faith is overwhelming. Please know that prayers are being said by my military support groups (Daughter in the Navy) as well as many church groups in Estes Park.<BR/><BR/>Ramona is a good friend and we have been praying since she found out.<BR/><BR/>I believe in the power of prayer and that there are those in the medical field who can share your faith and belief with you. As I was writing this the phone rang and someone from St. Jude's Hospital was speaking. Maybe God wanted me to mention this place.<BR/><BR/>It is the Saint Jude research center, looking for cures for childhood diseases. I don't have the contact info. now, but I trust that if God is asking me to mention this place to you, you will find it on your own.<BR/><BR/>You are a beautiful writer and I know your sharing is/will reach others who can benefit from your words. I have taken the liberty to send some of your spiritual references on to Mona and my military parents.<BR/><BR/>Miracles happen all the time. People survive the "unsurvivable". Hopefully, each case helps the medical profession, treat the next one. Only God knows what part of this chain Maddox will fall in, but I know he has and will continue to make his mark on the world and his process and your writing will reach out and touch others.<BR/><BR/> You have all made a difference in my life; I marvel that one so young can make a huge impact on the world. But only when the parents are strong enough to trust in God's love and let His plan go on.<BR/><BR/>God bless you and your family!<BR/><BR/>Cathiecbhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17830076839309866247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-37437635501237205222007-10-24T15:12:00.000-05:002007-10-24T15:12:00.000-05:00Kenzie - I was just in checking status of you & th...Kenzie - I was just in checking status of you & the fam - glad to see that you had written some more & thanks for posting the ultrasound pics. I had told you before you are MUCH stronger than I think I could ever be if faced with a situation such as yours - I mean it. I look at your writings and I am just in awe. 'Standing up for something that many don't understand, and walking through the fire' -- keep staying strong Kenz. Just wanted to let you know that I was thinking about all of you. Love you, Ginaeginaehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06536815805081103226noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-22015463788340235392007-10-19T09:01:00.000-05:002007-10-19T09:01:00.000-05:00Kenzie, as I sit here at work and think about ever...Kenzie, as I sit here at work and think about everything you have said I can’t tell you enough how much I look up to you. Yes, you are my sister but also my best friend. Your strength and love for the Lord is so inspiring. To be totally honest when mom told me what was going on I didn’t understand why and how this could happen to such wonderful parents. I questioned God for letting this happen to two amazing people, but as I read your words of hope and faith I can’t blame or question God. I know that He has a plan for everyone before we are born and I truly believe that he doesn’t let anything happen to people that can’t handle it. Reading your words has truly inspired me to look at life and evaluate how precious it is. My love for my nephew Maddox is growing everyday, and I can’t wait to see him, here on earth or in Heaven. Dusty, Deacon, Maddox, and you are in my prayers everyday. I pray for strength, courage, joy, and love for what lies ahead. I love you all so much, Karli Hardebeck.Karlihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05470257229638021600noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-7185728119478193372007-10-18T22:07:00.000-05:002007-10-18T22:07:00.000-05:00I will always keep you in my prayers Kenzie, I am ...I will always keep you in my prayers Kenzie, I am so sorry that this is happening. I'm sitting here wiping the tears from my face. to know somone I care about so dearly your Aunt Laura. knowing here niece and family is in pain. Kenzie God has a plan. Both of you need to be strong for each other. Don't let this tear you apart Maddox is your gift from God. God is good all the time. Boomer and Sheryl HazukaSherylkayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03222164128282280842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-84541013391278011522007-10-18T10:15:00.000-05:002007-10-18T10:15:00.000-05:00Your family has already touched and will continue ...Your family has already touched and will continue to touch so many lives. We pray that the Lord will overwhelm you with deeds of comfort.<BR/><BR/>Love,<BR/>The MorrisesKerryMorrishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12599229737785481214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-1060181030059365372007-10-18T09:49:00.000-05:002007-10-18T09:49:00.000-05:00Kenzie,Reading your story filled my mind with so m...Kenzie,<BR/><BR/>Reading your story filled my mind with so many thoughts and my heart with so much ache. How unselfish of you to share your heartache in order to also share His love and sacrifice with anyone who may need to be reminded. I pray for peace in your heart, peace in your family and a continued miracle for Maddox...as he already has a miracle in you...<BR/><BR/>Anne (a friend of your Aunt Mary's)Anne Franceshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14468946924834866976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-91115789079180008902007-10-18T09:33:00.000-05:002007-10-18T09:33:00.000-05:00I’m sure little Maddox must feel your love more th...I’m sure little Maddox must feel your love more than you will ever know. What faith and strength you have! You are sure opening all of our eyes to what faith is all about.<BR/>Thank you for sharing your life with us, it has to be very hard. <BR/>Our Prayers are with All of You,<BR/>Much Love, <BR/>Sam and SaintSam & Sainthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02187913328851343523noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-58563817238985221282007-10-18T09:25:00.000-05:002007-10-18T09:25:00.000-05:00Hi Kenzie, Dusty & Deacon & Maddox -- Kenzie - you...Hi Kenzie, Dusty & Deacon & Maddox -- <BR/>Kenzie - your writing brought tears to my eyes - it absolutely breaks my heart to know what you are having to deal with & I've come to realize that you all are SO much stronger than I could ever be. You have a tremendous talent at writing. I greatly admire your strength and courage in this difficult time. Know that I love you very much, know that my thoughts and prayers are with you all always. And if you need ANYTHING -- to talk, to vent, whatever it may be, be sure to call me/email me. I'm always here for you.<BR/>Love always, <BR/>Ginae (& Jaidyn, Rylie & Ryan)Ginaehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11921617411835815648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-67340563999664087262007-10-18T09:24:00.000-05:002007-10-18T09:24:00.000-05:00This comment has been removed by the author.Ginaehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11921617411835815648noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-17912977260353050192007-10-17T21:41:00.000-05:002007-10-17T21:41:00.000-05:00Dusty, Kenzie, Deacon and Maddox,I want to begin b...Dusty, Kenzie, Deacon and Maddox,<BR/>I want to begin by saying how big of an inspiration your family is to so many others. The faith you have in God and the Lord above is amazing!! I can only image how beautiful Maddox is and how much he must be smiling as Kenzie writes such touching words. Know that you have so many prayers out there for your family. Prayers of strength, love, hope, and encouragement to fight. Also, know that no matter what happens we will all end up together in one glorious place, walking down a gorgous sunset... I am thinking of your family always,<BR/>Jaime EmanuelJaimehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02686752631547395852noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-87986302423470917372007-10-17T18:54:00.000-05:002007-10-17T18:54:00.000-05:00Kenzie, such a tough path is given to you, and suc...Kenzie, such a tough path is given to you, and such a big heart and strenght you have had for carrying on with all this, I admire you, and I love you. <BR/>I hope you had read mi e-mail. We are all with you. <BR/>A big hug from me to Dusty. Deacon, Maddox and of course to you, <BR/><BR/>GABRIELA SANZANAAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-90613366742024964222007-10-17T18:34:00.000-05:002007-10-17T18:34:00.000-05:00Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And lean no...Trust in the LORD with all your heart, And lean not on your own understanding;<BR/>In all your ways acknowledge Him, <BR/>And He shall direct your paths.<BR/>Prov 3:5-6 (NKJV) <BR/><BR/>Since the day you were here and told me what was going on, I have not been able to get ya'll off my mind. Each time the Lord has put you on my heart I have lifted your family up in prayer. I will continue to faithfully!! You are SO strong Kenzie!! <BR/><BR/>Love,<BR/> ShannonShannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04188426849998026760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-28744195177785295892007-10-17T18:15:00.000-05:002007-10-17T18:15:00.000-05:00Kenzie, Dusty and Deacon,I am a friend of you Aunt...Kenzie, Dusty and Deacon,<BR/>I am a friend of you Aunt Mary's in Longmont. I hope you don't mind that she shared your story with me. I sat here crying for the pain you are feeling and yet inspired by your strength and your incredible FAITH. Little Maddox if a very lucky guy to have such a loving Mother, Father and big Brother. The love you are giving him through your upbeat attitude should be an inspiration to all! My you find comfort in your amazing faith, the love of friends and family and the power of prayer. I will be praying for all of you! <BR/><BR/>Love to you all! Cristi ZuegeCristi Zuegehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07524495207238394218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-24915669173229488202007-10-17T18:01:00.000-05:002007-10-17T18:01:00.000-05:00Kenzie, I don't know what to say. You and Dusty a...Kenzie, I don't know what to say. You and Dusty and Deacon are so awesome. I know if anybody can get through such a trying situation it is you and your family. You have such phenominal faith.<BR/><BR/>As I'm reading this at school and tears are rolling down my eyes, people are asking me if I'm ok and I shared your story with them. I hope that's ok. I know they also will be praying for you and your family. <BR/><BR/>With a middle name of Donald you know Maddox is a strong little guy.<BR/><BR/>They say God only gives us what we can handle...God KNOWS how strong and loving of Him you all are.<BR/><BR/>God Bless you all Kenzie and if there is ANYTHING, anything at all we can do for you - please let me know.<BR/><BR/>Love you lots<BR/><BR/>Aunt Mary and FamilyM Goldzhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09691337436291367130noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-40214786447310349872007-10-17T15:43:00.000-05:002007-10-17T15:43:00.000-05:00Dear Kenzie,I read this entry yesterday around 00....Dear Kenzie,<BR/>I read this entry yesterday around 00.00 here in Chile, probably I was one of the first reading your blog but I wasn't strong enough to write back. You know it's very hard for me to try to give you some kind of support, considering our lives went in different ways because of the distance... but even though you are not longer in this tiny little country, you are still part of our lives, as a family, and you are still part of mine. I feel very attached to you for some reason, maybe it's because I lived a similar experience when I went up to the States, I guess this is kind of hard to understand for other people.<BR/><BR/>Now as I read your words again I feel very proud of the person you turned to and how much you've grown. Dusty, Deacon and Maddox are surely blessed having you as a mommy and wife, and I'm sure they are strong as you are that's why you deserve each other as a family.<BR/><BR/>My thoughts and love are with you, your family and Maddox... <BR/><BR/>Love always,<BR/>Francisca SanzanaLondon Loveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10390066552956723826noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-16923129218019504972007-10-17T15:34:00.000-05:002007-10-17T15:34:00.000-05:00Kenzie and Dusty, thank you for including me in yo...Kenzie and Dusty, thank you for including me in your life. It is a terrible human trait that makes us take our lives for granted. Usually only in times like these where something so devistating is happening to someone you love do you open your selfish eyes and see how really good your life is. My heart goes out to you. I appreciate you sharing your life with me as always; I have learned alot in our journey together, thank you. KellyKellyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01020329707954179832noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-9661951881139120622007-10-17T15:18:00.000-05:002007-10-17T15:18:00.000-05:00Querida Kenzie:Estamos con Uds. a pesar de la dist...Querida Kenzie:<BR/><BR/>Estamos con Uds. a pesar de la distancia.....<BR/>Confiamos en que Dios les de la fuerza necesaria e ilumine el camino de Maddox<BR/><BR/>Todo el amor de tu familia chilena<BR/><BR/>MamáCarmen Pavezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09640944040057803480noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-46055763988200291112007-10-17T14:52:00.000-05:002007-10-17T14:52:00.000-05:00Kenzie, your words are heartfelt and precious. As...Kenzie, your words are heartfelt and precious. As I sit here, tears streaming down my face I admire you and the godly woman and mother that you are. We are here for you guys as you go through this journey...our thoughts and prayers are with you daily.<BR/><BR/>With much love,<BR/>Chad, Shannon, Gavin and Hudsonshannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17071292549707632546noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-25415053340208919532007-10-17T14:22:00.000-05:002007-10-17T14:22:00.000-05:00We are with you every step of the way on this jour...We are with you every step of the way on this journey. We love you guys so much and are diligently praying. <BR/><BR/>The Lord himself goes before you and will be with you; He will never leave you nor forsake you. Do not be afraid; Do not be discouraged. Deuteronomy 31:8<BR/><BR/>Much love, <BR/>The ChapmansChristinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01384946304977693050noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-89450111281746778652007-10-17T11:51:00.000-05:002007-10-17T11:51:00.000-05:00Kenzie, Dusty & DeaconI was so happy when Morgan l...Kenzie, Dusty & Deacon<BR/>I was so happy when Morgan let me know that you were doing this.<BR/>I had been wondering how you were doing every since Grandma called me.<BR/>Of course, I should have known since you know where your strength comes from and are relying on that strength.<BR/>We have been praying for you and your family every day. I have also put you on our small group prayer list. Each week on Tuesday nights when we meet we pray for you.<BR/>Psalm 28:7a - The Lord is my strength and my sheld; my heart trusts in him, and I am helped.<BR/>Psalm 29:11 - The Lord gives strength to his people; the Lord blesses his people with peace.<BR/>May He continue to Bless you with His Peace and His Love.<BR/>LindaLinda Robertshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07327964705513651593noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5237092377801454135.post-35364176478514114232007-10-17T10:13:00.000-05:002007-10-17T10:13:00.000-05:00Kenzie- As I sit here reading this I am crying thi...Kenzie- As I sit here reading this I am crying thinking about all of the pain you have to go through. It just doesn't see fair. We have to believe god does not give us anything we can not handle right? I feel so sad because you know how wounderful children are. Deacon is such a beautiful boy and everytime I see him I just want to squeeze him. The love I have for my own children I find feeling the same way for Deacon and Maddox. To think that he is so sick hurts me. I pray for you and the boys all of the time I love you unconditionally MorganMorganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09182386459642989049noreply@blogger.com